The Path to Love, Part 4.
Exercises (Continued), Nature Exercises and Conclusion
- Exercise 8 Intuitive Verbal Healing
- Exercise 9 Spiritual Healing
- Exercise 10 Intuition Clinic
- Exercise 11 Intuitive Writing
- Continuing with the Group
- After Word
- Appendix Exercises in Nature
- Further Reading
Exercise 8. Intuitive Verbal Healing
- The
next four exercises are a little more intense. By now, the group
members should know each other better and have developed some
love and trust together. They should also know that they can
'take risks in love', and, hopefully, that the group is a safe
place for tears to flow if they want to. Everyone will have had
a little practice in leading the group.
- This exercise involves three aspects of our identities, so
it is done in groups of three, with each person in turn playing
the roles which represent these aspects:
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- * Our 'problem' part
- This aspect is the part of us which does not yet feel like
pure love, and so lives in 'getting and forgetting', causing
us unhappiness and mood swings. This is the part that needs to
be 'healed' .Notice that it is also a part that can surrender
to healing, if ego allows it. Through the surrender, we
can find grace and love. This aspect is here named 'Healee'.
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- * Our compassionate self
- This aspect practises love by 'giving and forgiving' and
is the 'Healer' in us.
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- * The Divine Self
- This aspect is truth, waiting in bliss for us to join it;
giving us the grace to be seemingly independent. This is the
'Observer', whose being enables the other two aspects to work,
but is detached from problems and solutions, though not indifferent
to them.
- The group divides into triads, with the group leader keeping
separate. 'Odd bodies' can be extra Observers in a group and
get a healing afterwards, or, if there are two of them, can give
and receive healing at least doing two thirds of the exercise.
- The procedure is as follows: each triad finds a space in
the room and erects a symbolic barrier to other groups, using
chairs, blankets, or whatever comes to hand. Then they build
a 'nest' with chairs or cushions, where they can be comfortable.
There are going to be three 'healings' in the group and it can
be quite intense, so have blankets to cuddle into and paper hankies
to cry into, in case they are needed. It helps if everyone has
read the instructions first.
- The group leader begins the exercise by a short meditation
to lift the energy level:
- We close our eyes and make ourselves comfortable
- Take a few deep, slow breaths to calm and relax yourselves
Now, let's see this room filled with light, light for
each individual, each group and for the room as a whole
- We ask blessing for this exercise
- May everything we do come from the highest and be for
the highest good
- May we be in the light for the whole duration of the exercise,
so that each person receives that which they most need today
- We give thanks that it is so
- Visualise the other two members of your group. Connect
with them from your heart, without judgement and with unconditional
love
- Now open your eyes.
- Each person in the group now thinks of a problem or challenge
which they would like help with. It can be physical, psychological,
emotional or spiritual. Don't share it yet!
- The members of each triad become 'A', 'B' and 'C'.
- When the group leader has arranged all this, he or she continues:
- In this first part, A will share their problem, B will
be the healer and C, the observer.
- When A has shared their problem, B will go round behind
A, put their hands on A's shoulders, close their eyes and wait,
without consciously thinking of any solutions. C will be with
you, giving you both unconditional love and total attention,
but not getting involved.
- OK, A, share your problem.
When all the As have shared their problem and all the Bs are
behind the As, that is, all triads are ready and waiting, the
group leader says:
- Now, B, allow healing words for A to come to you. Don't
try to think if they are appropriate or not. Say anything that
occurs to you. If you feel a story coming, tell it. If you see
a picture, describe it. If you have a feeling, share it. If there's
nothing, say that, too. Allow whatever comes to you to be the
perfect thing for A.
- A, open yourself as much as you can to be healed.
- And C, support the process by giving A and B all your
love and individual attention, but don't get involved.
- You've got about eight minutes. Off you go!
- During the eight minutes, the group leader makes sure anyone
who needs it has paper hankies, and keeps in awareness what is
happening in each triad. It is good to walk quietly near the
different groups in turn, listen to a few words and then move
on. If any healer opens their eyes and thinks they have finished,
say quietly 'Stay there, something else might come.'
- At six minutes, say, so all can hear:
Two minutes to go.
And at 8 minutes:
- Finish off now
- B, return to your place, and everyone shut your eyes
- If you were A, could you accept the love given you in
B's words, or did you want something different:'
- If you were B, could you allow yourself to say whatever
came to you, or did you censor yourself?
- If you were C, could you give your total attention to
the others?
- just notice everything that happened; don't judge yourself
for it
- Now, open your eyes again, without talking
- This time, B will share their problem, after which C will
go behind B and put their hands on B's shoulders, close their
eyes and wait. A will give unconditional love and undivided
attention.
Then lead the process exactly as before, making sure not to
mix up the letters, until:
- Now open your eyes again, without talking
- Next, C will share their problem, after which A will go
behind C, put their hands on C's shoulders, close their eyes
and wait. B will give unconditional love and undivided
attention.
The process is again repeated, until:
- We give thanks for this time with our partners, for the
grace we have received, and for the insights we have been given.
We affirm our individual separateness.
- Now open your eyes
- Thank your partners for their love and attention and share
with them how it felt for you.
Finally, bring the group back together and have at least one
person from each group share what happened. End with a moment
of silence to give thanks.
Notes
- This exercise can be a moving experience, as well as giving
quite strong insights into different aspects of being. It is
important to try to be honestly aware of tendencies you may have,
such as to compete to be a 'better' healer, or to resist 'these
words aren't right for me' .Remember, if you knew the solution
to your problem, you wouldn't have it!
- As Observer, did you wander, or get involved in what happened,
or find yourself listening to someone else in another group,
rather than giving full attention to your own partners? Try not
to judge yourself for anything which you may have experienced.
At the beginning, you set up the energy for the highest good.
Trust that everything you received, gave or noticed was valuable
in some way and accept yourself. This is also a practice of love.
- In this exercise, through the role of healer, we are learning
to open to our higher wisdom, by just saying whatever comes to
mind (having first prepared ourselves with the opening meditations).
Do the meditations with awareness and attention, open yourself
in faith and the 'right' words will come; they really will. Learning
to trust that it is so allows you to become guided and to live
in grace.
- For the Group Leader
- This is quite a demanding exercise to lead. Try reading it
through a few times, till you've really got the hang of it. Take
it slowly and trust that you too are in the light and need not
be nervous. It helps to have a little table with you, like the
example below; otherwise, it is easy to get the letters mixed
up and confuse everybody, which tends to dissipate the energy
that the triads built up.
- Healee . . Healer . . Observer
- 1 A . . . . . . . B . . . . . . .C
- 2 B . . . . . . . .C . . . . . . .A
- 3 C . . . . . . . .A . . . . . . .B
Exercise 9. Spiritual Healing
- Y ou are not your body; but through
your body may flow an inexhaustible stream of Divine energy.
You are not your mind; but your mind may be filled with Divine
knowing. You are not your feelings; but your heart may be filled
with Divine Love.
- Essentially, these are the experiences you are seeking when
you practise spiritual healing. Since they are your highest attainments
as a human being, the practice of healing is a conscious way
of seeking, part of the spiritual path. Since most people's physique
and mentality are not prepared for such energies to flow, the
practice of healing is a way of developing them.
- So the benefit of spiritual healing is not merely to the
person healed, but also to the healer. Many books have been written
about spiritual healing. Healing in a group is an exercise
in compassion, a realisation that you are much more than you
allowed yourself to be.
- Everyone is capable of healing. No one who loves does not
heal the loved one, unless the loved one is Divinity itself,
perfection, whose Grace allows humanity to experience love, its
essence.
- This form of group spiritual healing is simple and safe.
After you have learned the technique and practised it on each
other, you can give your friends and acquaintances the benefit
of a healing. You will find that healing is never tiring nor
boring and that, in a subtle way, its practice changes you in
your everyday life. It combines with compassion the qualities
of concentration and intuition already developed in the previous
exercises. Healing can be easily learned.
- The group will need a small mattress and plenty of blankets
and cushions; two mattresses if the group is larger than about
seven or eight, when two hearings can go on at the same time.
The room should be warm and softly lit.
- The group agrees on a leader for the healing. He or she is
responsible for leading the group during the process of healing.
But there is a preliminary training exercise for all to do, so
that everyone is capable of taking the position of group leader
in a healing, as their turn comes.
- The training exercise is as follows: the group splits into
triads as far as possible, with groups of four if there are 'extra'
people. In these small groups you will practise:
- 1. preparing for a healing;
- 2. starting the healing off;
- 3. finishing the healing.
What is missed out in this practice is the healing itself.
It is good to take notes, so that if you forget the procedure,
when you are leading your first healing, you can briefly refer
to them. In the practice, one person plays healer, one lies down,
as if being healed and one plays assistant.
Before any 'healing' takes place, the group sits in a circle
round a candle to prepare itself through a guided meditation.
Here is a form of words to use for the person playing healer:
- Let's close our eyes, sit upright and relax
- We breathe deeply and slowly to centre ourselves
- We sense a light filling us and the room, the light of
Divine love
- We ask that all our work this evening comes from this
light
- We ask that we become channels for love to flow through
us in appropriate measure and form, for us and for the person
being healed
- We dedicate them our full attention and concentration
so this love can flow
- We ask that everything comes from the highest,. . .
- is for the highest good
- and is blessed for the entire time we are working
- We give thanks that it will be so. Now we will open our
eyes and prepare for the healing.
2. Starting off One of the group lies down,
pretending to be a 'healee'. The lead healer gets into position;
usually near the head of the healee is best, but this is not essential
(it is a good position for contact with the rest of the group).
He or she places the other 'healers' appropriately and leads the
following meditation: (Part A)
- Let's close our eyes and centre ourselves in the light
We make a connection of unconditional love and non-judgement
amongst us, including X (the healee)
- For the duration of the healing, we will give X our total
and undivided attention
We ask that all unwanted energies from this healing may
pass from us into the earth to be absorbed during the whole time
the healing takes place
(Part C)
We ask that we become pure channels of divine love for the
healing, so that just the energy that X needs can flow through
us, according to our capacity to pass it on
Sometimes it feels more 'real' if parts B and C are done with
imagery, for example:
(Alternative B)
- Let's imagine that we are trees, with roots going down
deep into the earth
- These roots will take away any unwanted energy during
the healing
(Alternative C)
Let's imagine a column of light passing through us
From the column, just the right amount is drawn off for this
healing, passing down our arms, through our hands and / or into
our voice, as necessary
Since this is a 'practice', to learn the technique, the healing
itself is by-passed and the triad goes on to Part 3.
- 3. Finishing
- The lead healer says:
- Now the healing is gently coming to a close. . .
- Remove your hands from X, so gently that they don't even
feel them going
- Release your connection with X, leaving all the energy
of the healing with them
- directing any surplus energy into the earth
- and retaining all your own, personal energy
- Now, affirm your own regular identity by repeating your
own name silently to yourself
- When you are ready, open your eyes.
- The triad then checks if the lead healer has mentioned all
the points in the above meditations and swaps around, until each
person has practised the technique.
- The reasons for formalising the technique come from experience.
Parts 1 and 2(A) establish the group in light and love at the
highest level on which it is capable of functioning, abolishing
day to day criticisms and judgement of others.
- Part 2(B) is necessary because healing does not only involve
giving energy. The person being healed may release energy and
you don't want to take that energy in. There is no point in the
healee getting better and the healer getting worse!
- Part 2(C) is to ensure that you don't, in your desire to
heal, give your own physical energy to the person being healed,
as this only results in the healee feeling temporarily stronger
and you weaker! By being channels for Divine love you are involved
with a limitless energy source benefiting both healers and healee.
- Part 3 is important because, in the intensity of a healing,
you sometimes bind yourselves together energetically. If you
don't fully return to your own individual and distinct self,
there can be a disorienting sensation of not knowing who you
are!
- Thus, these short meditations have a purpose and value for
everyone in the group. If more than one healing is to be performed
in an evening, Part 1 need only be done once, but, until the
group is experienced, it is better to do it before every healing.
- Having learned the preparatory meditations, we can now move
to the real healing itself.
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- Doing a Healing
- After Part 1 is completed, the lead healer welcomes the person
to be healed and invites them to lie down on their back on the
mattress. A healing can be performed in any position, but lying
down full length on the back makes a 'healee' feel more open
and vulnerable. It also allows the group to be around the person
comfortably. Someone offers the healee a blanket and, if it is
wanted, spreads it over them.
- The lead healer then asks the healee to describe their problem.
Everyone listens carefully and may ask for clarification, such
as, 'How long has it been going on?'; 'What treatment have you
already sought?'; 'Were there significant circumstances when
it began?'; etc. This helps to relax the healee and indicates
real interest.
- Notice that we are all good at fabricating explanations of
our problems which don't necessarily go to their source. In the
healing, trust your intuition. Incidentally, the problem need
not only be a physical complaint; one can have a healing for
any problem, from the seemingly trivial to the seemingly devastating.
Each problem is given equivalent attention by the healers. Who
knows what is really hidden behind a superficial explanation?
- Then the lead healer tells the healee:
All you need to do is to relax and be comfortable. Is it
alright if we lay our hands on you during the healing?
Most people like this; it gives reassurance, but it is not
essential. In a very few cases, people prefer no physical contact.
The group leader continues:
I may share images with you during the healing, and we
may make sounds or sing.
- Then the lead healer leads the group into Part 2, to prepare
for the healing.
- In a group healing, the lead healer is a little like the
conductor of an orchestra. The group obeys them implicitly. Even
if, as an individual, you are not happy with what is going on,
abide with it and share your feelings afterwards. Otherwise,
the energy will be disrupted.
- In the conductor's repertoire are:
- * energy passing through the hands (which might have
a colour or hue);
- * sharing of images;
- * verbal guided meditation or symbols or 'stories'
(only told by the leader);
- * sounds made by the leader, which the group takes
up for as long as the lead healer thinks appropriate, or even
songs, which the group also takes up.
- As lead healer, you 'hold the energy' in the room, your faith
ensuring that it expresses Divine love and light alone.
- The basic theme is harmony of divine love flowing
through the healing group to the healee, with whatever energy
the healee releases flowing back into the earth. Everyone has
their own way of leading a healing; everyone has a different
nuance to give. 'Strangely enough', usually the healer and healee
are 'just right' for each other.
- After completing Part 2, the lead healer opens their eyes
gently and tells the group to do so as well. From then on, you
must trust your intuition implicitly. You position the group
members around the healee as it feels right to you, and instruct
them to place their hands on the healee's body accordingly. (There
shouldn't be heavy hand pressure or any kind of massage. You
are working with energy.) Eyes can then be closed again.
- Next, you begin to allow the energy to flow through the group
to the healee. If it seems to have a colour, tell the group
to channel that colour! After a while, you may 'feel' words,
or 'see' images; share them! You may, at some point, sense
a sound waiting to be made. Instruct the group to make it
with you! When it seems sufficient, stop! Sometimes
there is humour. Sometimes there is total silence. Trust your
intuition! You have set its source with your preparatory
meditation.
- Eventually, when it seems that the healee has absorbed all
the energy they are able to take, bring the healing to a close,
with Part 3.
- After some moments, ask the healee to say how they feel.
Don't let them go into details or ask for explanations. The very
best thing for them is to go straight to bed. If this is possible,
one of the group - a friend if one is there can be asked to take
them. If the healee is part of the group and the group is going
to do another healing, lie them down in a corner somewhere to
relax and doze. Don't let them take part in the next healing.
- All this is done because it is easy to 'talk away' the energy
of a healing, or lose it in further activity. A group channelling
love is powerful treatment; it needs to be absorbed. After the
healee is out of earshot, the group can discuss the impressions
and images they had. If the person who received the healing belongs
to the group, they can share at the next meeting.
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- Notes about Healing
- This way of performing hearings is simple and uncomplicated.
It can be adapted easily to do individual hearings. (You can
do the preparatory meditations silently, telling the healee that
you are preparing yourself. But never skim over them!) You will
never be given more than you can handle. Trust this and have
confidence.
- Sometimes a healing releases stored pain and grief. If a
person starts crying heavily during the work, encourage them
to breathe deeply, until they return to their normal breathing.
Very occasionally, a healee may have tremors as the energy 'works'
.Again, lovingly regulate the breathing and the tremors will
subside after a while. Have confidence in your preparatory meditations.
You are a pure channel of Divine love; nothing can go wrong.
You don't need any intermediate 'beings' or 'helpers' for the
healing. Divine love itself is flowing through you. It is your
highest, limitless energy your ultimate truth.
- Here are some pitfalls to avoid. Do not get hung up about
results. Healing works only to the degree that all parties allow
it. Trying hard doesn't make for better healing; it just tires
you out. Relax, allow the energy to flow through you. That way
it will work best.
- Perhaps the healee is just starting to work on their problem.
Your healing will be a contribution, though much still remains
to be done. Perhaps the healee is just ready to release a problem;
then the results may be more dramatic, but your contribution
was only the very last touch to the break through. A stone doesn't
necessarily shatter the first time you hit it. But the tenth
blow which breaks it may only be a tap; the other nine have done
the main work.
- Secondly, anything that happens is love's work, not your
ego's. Don't bathe yourself in the healee's praise: 'I feel wonderful,
the pain's all gone', or feel useless if they say: It's just
as bad as before'. Your responsibility is to channel unconditional
love as appropriately as you can and to lead the group through
in harmony. That is all.
- If you like to practise healing, be careful not to confuse
it with self-confidence. A person who only feels good when they
are healing generates around them illnesses to heal. Such a healer's
good feelings depend upon other people's pain; don't be a 'do-gooder',
but do channel love! That will do you good and bring you closer
to your ultimate truth, Love itself.
- 'Miracle' hearings area product of faith, confidence and
grace; perfect confidence on the part of the healer, perfect
faith on part of the healee. As Jesus said: "Your faith
has made you whole." Such hearings are a result of perfection,
so let yourself be a trainee and enjoy the wonderful atmosphere,
good experiences and fine company of doing hearings with a group.
You are on your way.
Exercise 10. Intuition Clinic
- In two of the exercises so far, you
have supported your partner verbally by describing their 'house'
and by giving them a verbal healing (in the triad exercise).
This verbal work can be developed into something you do in a
group with others, an intense and uplifting experience.
- The group divides into subgroups of 4 or 5 people (3 are
too few, and 6 would made the subgroup too big), but you don't
need an overall group leader for this exercise, except to start
the proceedings off. Once the groups are established, you can
come together for a preparatory meditation, which does need a
guide. As usual, this is to set the energy for the work and everyone
should be familiar with it by now. The group sits in a circle
round the candle:
- Relax, close your eyes
- Breathe slowly and consciously to bring yourself fully
present
- See an inner light shining from the group, filling the
whole room with light
- We ask that everything we do in this exercise is in the
light, comes from the highest and is for the highest good
- We ask that the exercise be blessed, so that each member
receives exactly the information they require, in ways they can
accept
- We give thanks that these things will be so
- Now, gently, open your eyes.
- The subgroups then form, each having the maximum available
space (but stay in the room you have filled with light). Everyone
will need paper and pen and there should be enough chairs and/or
cushions and blankets to make yourselves comfortable.
- One person in the subgroup now becomes temporary group leader
and another, X, becomes the one to share a 'problem', again,
of any sort. The subgroup reforms in a fan shape, so that everyone
is directly facing X, close together, giving each member the
same access to X.
- After the problem is shared, the first leader guides the
group in a little meditation, as follows:
- We close our eyes and feel the light embracing the group
- We make a connection together, of non-judgement and unconditional
love
- and allow our highest intuition to give us information
relevant to the problem that X has just shared
- We give thanks for this opportunity
- Whoever is ready can begin.
- The subgroup stays with eyes closed, except for X, who takes
up pen and paper. The temporary group leader can both take part
and keep aware of what is going on. Bypassing the rational thought
process and trusting the preparatory meditations, each person
now shares the images or words that come to them, one person
at a time.
- If you feel brave, inwardly ask for an interpretation of
symbols or images, but don't let your reason take over; the aim
is to work with Divine intelligence. Also, don't think anything
that comes is silly or inappropriate; just share it. When all
the 'readers' have shared, have another go. You may well find
that something someone else has said stimulated you. Don't forget
to keep your eyes closed the whole time.
- X writes everything down. When it all seems complete, and
without leaving a ponderous pause, the temporary group leader
says:
- Is everyone finished?
- We give thanks for the information we received
- and release the special connection with X, sensing our
own name ringing within us
- We now open our eyes.
- Without any chatter, the group rearranges itself so that
another member becomes X and someone else is temporary leader.
Then the whole procedure is repeated, including the meditations
at the beginning and the end. Since this exercise involves concentration
and a lot of sitting still, it is good to take a little break
after the second session, without losing the atmosphere or talking
about the work..
- In turn, the remaining members of the group take on the roles
of X and temporary group leader, repeating the meditations for
each session, till all have had their turn at being 'read' and
leading the group.
- The final temporary group leader then adds the following
sentence to the concluding meditation:
- We give thanks for each other's loving attention and caring
- And we open our eyes.
- After such a period of intensive concentration, the group
usually feels tired but uplifted, ready for a group hug and home!
- Study what you received when you were X. If it feels irrelevant
or cryptic, read it last thing at night and ask for a dream about
it. You may get insights that way. Don't get hung up if somebody
says something you feel is totally wrong. Just write it down
and notice it. Remember, as in all the other exercises, the point
is to learn to open yourself to Spirit in different ways. Each
of you is learning: the subgroup members to contact higher wisdom;
the Xs, acceptance and surrender. Learn to accept that the temperament
of each member of the group will 'colour' their words or actions.
Let them be who they are they'll change faster that way
- and expect the same for yourself.
- After repeating this exercise several times in the group,
you may feel confident enough to ask some friends in to 'have
a clinic'. Do explain to them carefully what is going on, and
don't let them take part in the group apart from receiving information.
They need more experience first. Believe it or not, by the time
you've come to the point of asking friends in for Exercises 9
and 10, you will have moved a lot in yourself. You'll find you
have new insights, new challenges, and more powerful tools for
looking at the world and a greater degree of detachment from
it. The light in your eyes will be glowing brighter!
Exercise 11. Intuitive Writing.
- This exercise is the basis of learning
how to channel to receive messages from a higher source.
It is not necessary for any channelling to actually occur, but
the exercise is a further way of learning how to trust. We cannot
demand to receive messages from a higher source, for we are still
ego-bound and not in control of that source. We can 'set' our
energy to the highest and see what happens. This is what is done
in the exercise.
- It starts with a meditation to set the energy at the highest,
and then, for a set period of time, the group members allow whatever
comes to each individual to be written down. This is not the
same as 'automatic' writing, where the hand writes without the
volition of the writer. That sometimes happens in this exercise,
but mostly, words, images or ideas come, letting the source,
our highest consciousness, play on them and to give us what we
need.
- What we need is not always what we want. In one group a member
had always been a 'good' girl, and was most upset when she found,
during her first attempt, that she just wanted to scribble and
slash the pen across the paper. Of course, this was what she
needed to break free from the straitjacket of worldly 'goodness'
she'd imposed on herself throughout her life. Later, she received
some beautiful messages.
- The challenge is to abandon judgement and censorship of what
goes on, and dare to write down whatever may come. Maybe, for
you, the 'right' thing just now is to free material from your
unconscious mind. Or to break away from the conformity of your
education and be creative. Or to exercise your imagination in
the realms of fantasy. Some people write 'stream of consciousness'
passages. Others draw. Some write frenetically for the whole
duration, others jot down a few 'key' words. Occasionally, people
find themselves writing in strange 'scripts'.
- The important thing is not to say that only such and such
is appropriate and enter into self-censorship or judgement. In
some cases it may be appropriate to write nothing at all, but
usually this indicates that the ego has entered into a game of
resistance and censorship. If that appears to be happening, write
it down, too: 'I'm getting nothing'; 'I'm resisting putting my
thoughts down', as this often acts as a bridge to writing. Trust
the meditation. You may be being shown how your thought-forms
stifle your potential.
- Here is how to do the exercise.
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- Part 1: Writing
- Everyone will need a pen and plenty of paper, with a spare
pile in the room, in case someone runs out. A writing board or
large book may help. If there are tables available, chairs can
be set round them. Then everyone seeks out a 'good' position
for themselves, settles down with pen and paper and the group
leader begins, as follows:
- Close your eyes, relax your bodies, allow your deep, slow
breathing to centre you
- Let's imagine a light, shining from each one of us and
filling the room, the light of Divine love, our highest Self
- We ask that this light be our source in this exercise,
and that we receive exactly what is appropriate for us to receive
today
- We ask that the exercise be blessed; that, for its whole
duration we are guided by the light and are in the light
- In this knowledge, we joyfully open ourselves to whatever
comes to us, without restraint or self-censorship
We give
thanks for this opportunity
- Now, open your eyes and begin writing as soon as anything
comes to you, thought, image, symbol, story, good advice, whatever.
Don't wait for things to be complete in your head before you
start writing. Just begin. You have 25 minutes.
- (Twenty-five minutes is an appropriate amount of time for
a group to work with.)
- The group leader should participate, but with half an eye
of awareness on the rest of the group, in case their support
is needed by someone with strong emotions. Intervene only if
the process is really disrupting the energy in the room.
At the end, the group leader says:
- The time is over
- Finish the sentence you are writing
- Everyone close their eyes and do an inner check. Did you
write everything that came to you, or did you think some things
were inappropriate and leave them out? If so, notice it
without judging yourself
- We give thanks for this time and for everything we have
received
- Releasing this state by repeating our name to ourselves
inwardly, we open our eyes.
- The second part of the exercise is to share what has been
received. It is just as powerful as the first part. There is
no obligation on a person to read out or show what has come to
them, but if the group is loving, supportive and non-judgemental,
all will find themselves able to share.
- The group members form a circle round the candle, get comfortable
(for the sharing may last a long time), then the group leader
starts with an attunement, all holding hands:
- We see the room filled with light and give thanks for
this time of sharing together
- As we share, let's remember that no one has received anything
'better' than anyone else, that each person got what was right
for them and that sharing gives us the collective wisdom the
group received
- Let's now open our eyes.
- Before they share what they have received, each person explains
what happened for them during the exercise. After they have finished,
questions or comments are in order, but no criticism or judgmental
statements. Anything like that breaks trust and can kill the
atmosphere very quickly. Be supportive to every person in the
group, whether they 'heard Cod's words', or got nothing at all.
Every group member gives each sharer their full attention.
- At the end, a normal closing attunement finishes the session.
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- Notes
- The exercise can be repeated by the group every so often.
You will discover that what you receive changes and develops
with time. Also, intuitive writing can be done individually at
home.
- If you try it, remember never to skim over on the meditation,
for that sets your energy to the highest level. Always allow
a limited time period, after which you stop, no matter how eager
you are to continue. The physical body gets tired, holding such
a high energy. There is always another time and the Higher Self
won't go away or forget! As you practise, you can extend the
time you take. Remember also that you don't need to rush to write
down everything that comes. Find your own calm and relaxed pace.
Nothing will be lost; but by rushing, you might have difficulty
deciphering what you wrote!
- For some people, the love that these messages express is
very moving. Perhaps you haven't realised that you are loved
in this very personal way, that God is with you. Eventually,
you may develop confidence in this higher contact. The way to
do so is by checking it carefully against your day-to-day experience.
If it consistently does not contradict your common sense and
conscience, it can become a way to assist in guiding your life.
- It has become fashionable and popular to 'channel' wisdom
from 'disembodied beings'. This may happen to you; but surely,
it would be more preferable to channel from the highest source
of all, the reality of life which is your own essence - Divine
love itself. It will joyfully express itself through you if you
give it the opportunity. That is the point of all these exercises.
- There is something of glamorous consumerism about the 'New
Age' tendency to 'get wisdom from the masters', play with crystals
and various 'magical' phenomena. This book is written for those
who want to go beyond all that and find Truth and the reality
of Divine love in themselves. Seek the highest and you will find
it.
Continuing With the Group
- The foregoing exercises provide a
basis for an ongoing spiritual group, centred itself on spiritual
healing and intuitive counselling, as described in Exercises
9 and 10. The group may meet regularly, fortnightly or monthly.
But always begin with a meditation and spiritual sharing
make sure you avoid gossip and general sharing about the state
of the world, etc. Then it can continue with healings and / or
intuitive clinic. If group members have other exercises of value
they'd like to introduce, that is fine, although it is best to
have an ongoing theme.
- As soon as the group develops enough confidence, friends
should be invited to visit for hearings or counselling. It concentrates
the mind wonderfully to have to work with someone from outside,
and gives a sense of service to the activity. With more experience,
you may also want to work with strangers, who have been recommended
by those you have already practised with.
- After a while perhaps in a year or two the
'natural life' of the group will come to an end. Each member
will then put the experience which they have gained from it to
work in their ongoing lives; some may even go on to be healers
or spiritual counsellors. So let the group go, with gratitude,
and without regret.
After Word
- Working with these exercises, repeating
them, and expanding from them, will provide a means of focusing
the activities of the 'good company' you need, and help to strengthen
your spiritual commitment. They can increase your confidence
in the practice of love.
- As you grow in strength, take what you learn in the group
out into life. Life is the biggest exercise you have to take
part in. No one can evade the challenge, but it helps to approach
it consciously. Approach life seeking the ephemeral and it will
mirror the ephemeral back to you. Come the day that your life
ends, and you will have nothing. All will have been wasted, all
will have to be repeated!
- Approach life seeking happiness through love and it will
unfold for you like a great story book, each page showing the
way from 'here' to 'there' .Although, when you finally get 'there',
you will find that you are still 'here'! However your consciousness
will be totally transformed so that you see with God's eyes
your own true eyes.
- Don't be fainthearted. Above all, don't think of yourself
as a miserable, hopeless sinner. There are bound to be many mistakes
and setbacks as you explore life. But see them for what they
are - mistakes and setbacks. Resolve to learn; forgive yourself.
Aspire to love now. You don't need to postpone it for other lifetimes.
It is offered to you now. Set out on the voyage of life's
journey to love and you will reach the harbour. Happiness begins
to be yours as soon as you set off, for you have a purpose which
will constantly engage you, never bore you, and will inflame
you with transformation.
- The journey from self to Self is exciting. It doesn't take
place in a church, monastery or temple - they are but spaces
where you can breathe calmly for a moment. The journey begins
as soon as you wake up and goes on until your head touches the
pillow and your eyes close even then it goes on, as you absorb
the teachings and opportunities the day has brought.
- The message underlying each part of this book is: change
your focus from the desires, objects, and connections of the
outer world to the love that is the essence of all these things.
Then, the outer things become your servants on your path to the
realisation of love, not powerful masters which beset and tempt
you on your way.
- 'Good company' strengthens your courage, helping you to be
aware that a deeper truth lies behind outer forms. Devotion provides
you with the easiest way to transcend your ego, so that it gradually
becomes redundant.
- Seek love; understand it; practise it
until one day
you know it as your very nature. Then the happiness which you
experienced in your search will become the bliss of discovery.
You will be an empowered servant of humanity, knowing your path
and freely choosing it!
Appendix. Exercises in Nature
- Nature is a reflection of love, an
aspect of the Divine system clothed in form. These forms can
strike a chord of beauty in our hearts, uplifting us. For the
so-called 'Earth peoples', especially the Native Americans and
Australian Aboriginals, the natural world was a temple, infused
with the Great Spirit, chalice of the Dream Time. For Western
civilisations, on the other hand, nature has for a long time
been something to be conquered and then ruthlessly exploited.
The result is the contemporary ecological crisis.
- In order to rectify this, the ecological movement is not
enough. We need to learn once more to find reverence in nature,
to be moved by love for her, and to expand our awareness of the
Divinity expressed in natural forms. Only then will the devastation
of nature become untenable and our environment recover.
- So here are a few exercises, derived from the Native American
tradition, that a group can do together. They are exercises which
will help us to develop this reverence.
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- Finding a Power Spot
- Choose a pleasant day for an outing together; take a picnic.
It shouldn't be too hot, nor rainy, nor extremely windy, but
a day which will allow all of you to give pleasurable attention
to the country. Go to a place removed from urban noise and bustle,
where there won't be many people around. It doesn't have to be
a famous beauty spot but, if someone in the group has a 'special'
place they like, and it meets the above requirements, that will
be a good place.
- Having arrived at the chosen spot and organised yourselves,
the group leader for the day leads an attunement, with the group
standing in a circle:
- Let's close our eyes
- Breathe deeply and slowly and become calm
- Let's feel an inner light surrounding us, shining from
the circle and the country around
- In this light, we now ask blessing for all our activities
today
- May we be open, with respect and reverence for the experiences
nature gives us
- We come to this spot in peace and goodwill and ask the
spirits of nature here to work with us and be our guides, all
the time we are here
- Let's listen a little to the sounds around us
- Let's feel the sun and wind on our faces
- Now, we open our eyes.
- The next thing is for everybody to separate and start a slow
ramble, allowing the feet to take you wherever they 'want' to
go, and stopping to look at this and that.
- When you come to a spot that draws you, sit down there for
a few minutes. How does it feel? If, after five minutes or so,
you feel just as you did before, then you have found a neutral
spot. If you feel slightly restless and irritable, you have found
a spot 'unfriendly for you'. If you have a definite, palpable
sense of well-being, you have found a positive or 'power' spot
for you. You'll be surprised how easy this is, if you don't let
your rationality get in the way!
- Carry on exploring till you have definitely identified places
of all three types. Then return to one of your positive 'places
of power' and sit there for some time, enjoying it, letting it
drain tension and stress from you. Before you leave your spot,
have a moment of inner attunement and give thanks to nature.
- After about two hours, return to the group so everyone can
share their experiences.
- Learning to find beneficial spots in nature is a major step
forward. You can 'make friends' with such a spot and, once you
know how to find one, you will be able to go out alone and find
calm and balance in such a place. Some spots are in general 'human
friendly', and others human unfriendly' .Many are neutral. But
some spots will be personally friendly, so you can feel a well-being
there which other people may not.
- Always, when you go out like this, spend time in an attunement
to the light within you and invoke the aid of the nature spirits
of the place. It will calm and sensitise you, and alert them
to a friend. After a while, you will be able to feel the value
for you of other places; where you work and live, for example.
When people were closer to nature, they intuitively chose good
locations for buildings and places of worship. Indeed, it became
an art in China (Feng Shui).
- But nowadays, almost all buildings are located for purely
commercial reasons and some of them are in very 'unfriendly'
spots. People wonder why they get ill, depressed and irritable.
An unfriendly location can contribute to such distress.
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- Using Your Power Spot
- Later the same day, or on another day, the members of the
group may, after an attunement, return to one of their beloved
spots, bringing paper and pen with them.
- Having settled yourself down in your pleasant place, begin
to examine it in very close detail, focusing on the detail and
form of little plants, the movements of insects on the ground,
the way the spot lies in relation to its horizon, trees, rocks
and natural features. Notice how the sun strikes the vegetation
and throws certain parts into relief. If you like, allow your
imagination to build pictures and symbols from all these shapes
and forms.
- In doing this, you will be making a 'close connection' with
the natural world, something even country ramblers usually fail
to do. You are not doing it for some botanical or zoological
purpose, but for the enjoyment of the intimacy itself. You may
find yourself suddenly moved by the meanderings of a beetle;
or you may 'make friends' with a tree or plant, which seems especially
warm and connected to you.
- After about an hour of sitting most people cannot
concentrate for any longer take your pen and paper and
start writing down whatever comes to you: it may be a description
of the place; or perhaps your imagination weaves a story; perhaps
a poem comes. Perhaps you start imagining how this spot was hundreds,
thousands, millions of years ago: write it down. Perhaps you
'hear' messages from the nature spirits around the energies
organising the growth of plants and life of minerals. In the
special space of your power spot, spend half an hour or an hour
jotting down all your impressions.
- The group can come together for lunch and share all these
writings in the afternoon. Or do the writing one afternoon and
share together 'at home' in the evening. Through such writing
you become more aware, more connected, more loving to the natural
world.
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- Using the Power Spot to Make Inner Contact with the Natural
World
- The world of water, rocks, earth, plants and animals has
little consciousness in the sense that we know it. It is, and
goes on being. In place of individual consciousness are the regulating
energies of the natural forms. All peoples close to nature
symbolise these as invisible inhabitants of nature spots; fairies,
leprechauns, elves, gnomes, trolls, and so on. Some old people
in remote areas still claim to be able to 'see' such beings,
but they are mostly relegated to fairy stories and fantasy novels.
- By being still in a positive power spot, we can develop a
strong rapport with the energies governing nature; and through
it, love and respect for the wonder of the natural world and
the essential oneness underlying all this; Divine love.
- As usual, the group starts with an attunement, then separates
to seek positive power spots.
- At your spot, settle down, feel the well-being from the 'good
vibes', and begin to focus your attention on one point. Perhaps
it is the branch of a tree, the shape of a plant, a spot framed
by leaves, or an area of ground close by. Then you spend an hour
just gazing lovingly at that spot, not straining the eyes, but
moving as little as possible. You are not seeking anything except
loving rapport, but, in time, what you are seeing may subtly
change. At the least you will become entranced by the scene you
see; perhaps you will 'see' lines of energy flowing around your
point; perhaps a miniature 'alternative reality' will form itself
for you. You may have visions; or receive advice.
- After your time, close your eyes, make your breathing conscious,
and give thanks. Then walk back to the group for a sharing.
- Through this kind of practice you will gradually become not
just a nature lover, nor just someone aware of ecological crises;
but someone living now in the oneness of all life, with
a respect for each of its forms. Not to leave litter around is
no longer just part of the 'Country Code', for instance. It is
simply unthinkable.
- Nature as Healer and Therapist
- Sun Bear taught people in emotional pain or trauma to find
a hole in the ground and howl into it, releasing the problem
to Mother Earth. Similarly, this exercise enlists nature as a
supporter, helping us to move on. As with the other exercises,
it involves intuitive rapport.
- The group attunes in an appropriate nature spot. For this
exercise, even a large garden will do. Each member finds a partner
and shares a problem or challenge they would like support to
resolve. This is done in order to articulate the problem and
fix it firmly in the forefront of consciousness.
- When everyone is ready, the group comes together again and
stands in a circle. The day's group leader begins the following
short meditation:
- Close your eyes
- Become calm, by breathing slowly and deeply
- In love and respect for the natural world, we ask the
co-operation of the natural energies of this place for assistance
in solving these challenges we face
- We open ourselves for this assistance for the duration
of the exercise
- And give thanks for it
- Now, we open our eyes and wander off, letting our feet
carry us, stopping where it feels appropriate and being open
for experiences, symbols, and insights given to us from the natural
world around us.
- Everyone goes off on their 'healing walk' .After a prearranged
time (half an hour to an hour), the members return, bringing
with them anything that feels appropriate (and doesn't damage
the locality by the taking) to share what happened to them during
their wanderings. It is a good feeling to discover that natural
forces will co-operate with humans if respected and loved, and
that such co-operation may be mutually beneficial.
- These exercises are not part of any 'shamanic path', but
a way of practising love, respect, co-operation, and closeness
with nature and enhancing a sense of oneness with all life. All
these qualities are involved in spiritual development and bring
benefit to all beings.
Further Reading
There are so many books and many different
approaches to spirituality, even apart from the established religious
traditions. It is important that study does not become a substitute
for practice; but books can, of course, guide and stimulate. Here
1 have listed only a few of the books that have guided and stimulated
me, in no sort of order or priority.
- * The four gospels of the New Testament.
- * Original Blessing by Matthew Fox (a Christian approach
that is not 'sin centred').
- * The Gnostic Gospels by Elaine Pagels (describes
a rich and varied Christian tradition about which, until recently,
we had very little information).
- * The Course in Miracles (a channelled book, purportedly
from Jesus Himself; it's all there, but rather heavy going).
- * Siddharta by Herman Hesse (a brilliant fictional
account of the search for enlightenment).
- * Journey to Ixtlan by Carlos Castaneda (all his books
are fascinating, but, for me, this one is the best; consciousness
training from a master, using the nature tradition).
- * Selling Water by the River by Jiyu Kennett (a manual
of Zen training).
- * God Spoke to Me and other books by Eileen Caddy
(channelled wisdom, pure and beautiful).
- * The Holy Man and the Psychiatrist by Samuel Sandweiss
(a very impressive introduction to Sathya Sai Baba and His teaching).
- * Sathya Sai Speaks, 27 volumes of discourses by Sai
Baba, and translated from Telegu (here is the essence, spoken
to all kinds of audiences in India; the revised editions, just
coming out, are much easier to read).
- * Discourses on the Bhagavad Gita by Sathya Sai Baba
(34 discourses to students by Sai Baba, beautifully edited by
Al Drucker - the quintessence of Sai Baba's teaching).
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